It is a world of lonely people out there. Lonely men and women, apparently dissatisfied with their sex lives. Why should something as simple as the love is so difficult?
A look at the history and the relationship between the sexes could help us understand how we got to the stage where we
have 40 years old virgins and a wilderness of broken relationships.
The last 100 years have seen a tremendous change in male / female dynamic times. This was partly due to maleSuppress
Women and the "emancipation of women" primarily through feminism, the image conscious in today's world, where beauty is valued and honored, and many people no longer understand what should be their role in an increasingly changing society.
Women are often told that "there are no good men anymore." This statement is not true. What is true is that with the changing
Reality, where women have more power in society and the peoplenot to adapt to these changes. Therefore, the two men and women,
Especially in the Western Hemisphere have problems.
A byproduct of this issue is a decline in marriage and a decline in population growth.
Gone in earlier, was seen as a male main breadwinner, and he was sent to the support of his wife, worked at home
Care of the family. The women were seen again, then prepared biologically as breadwinners and better to care for children.
However,Many men abused the roles that women played in this relationship, and not play their role properly, sometimes
have the possibility of other women, while the woman was distracted with the family.
Over time, the women had enough that they announced an agreement an unfair advantage to the people and the society had begun to make changes. Along with the rising cost of living and the apparent inequality of the marriage arrangement appeared more women into previouslymale-dominated roles.
The freedom that women have fought and enjoy today was a double-edged sword. On the one hand, they are able to
Function in society and rightly enjoy the benefits of preserving the long-standing people. On the other hand, a competitive
Mentality has crept into their personal relationships shift of the respective roles of husband and wife.
The shift away from the traditional way for a dynamic that made the feminizationof people to find themselves
"acceptable" must appear as "sensitive" to their needs and are used in conjunction with his "feminine side."
This is completely against the natural order. Men can not operate successfully, while trying to imitate the qualities of a woman.
Similarly, it is against the natural order for a woman like a man, especially work in a relationship.
This role reversal, which is more common that you will perhaps think it a muchDisappointment and heartache for those involved.
I've often heard that both men and women to criticize their former partners but never any responsibility for its role in the relationship and whether they really play their roles properly.
Women will complain that the man realized not accept "the leadership did not even" that is the reason that they have
leads. A man should not lead because he believes that the woman what he has described as "equal rights" forto lead them, while
the same time complaining about where the relationship position.
This leads to confusion.
To illustrate: Suppose you go into a restaurant and order a steak too. You get a knife and fork to eat the steak.
Are the knives and forks "equal?"
The answer is that equality is not the problem. Both the knife and fork have strengths that complement each other. Try and see if
You can eat a steak, pierce with a fork. Try it with just a knife. Havesee, you need both of them to be successful?
OK, try this one. What if you have two forks, this is equivalent to a man and a woman who acts like a man. How far did you get with the steak?
How about two knives, a woman and a man who acts like a woman. You will not get far. Note that in these examples, the
Things that were seemingly "equal", it was not their job.
The fact is that the gender has very little to do with love and relationships in general do. There will alwaysone who loves
more than the others, who is emotional, a more favorable.
At this age, we are so hung up on equality in the relationship that we are trying to measure, what should the other person. It's like saying the knife to the fork, "why are you just there holding the steak, while I am doing the hard work of cutting?" The knife is not even appreciate the fact that the fork is a very important task of holding down the steak.
My point isYou: Men and women are different, they bring different qualities in a relationship. They complement each other. Neither is superior, and no one is worse. The company has have to think a little brainwashing, that many women to be
This alluring goddess and men their admirers slave who does what it takes to get even the feminization of its price.
Many people are confused, they recognize that they can not be "metro-sexual," that is alien to them. They only knowhow to be men. If they try to pull in touch with their feminine side, it feels unnatural to them. Women are obtained with the perceived power of an advantage in the "game" of relations, for equality, where equality does not stop.
With regard to some of these points may seem controversial, what is the key to a successful relationship?
Men need men and women should be women. We can not allow that, given the current circumstances interfere with our God tobiological predisposition.
Men and women need to appreciate back in touch with their natural gender, and the gifts that they bring each other
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